![]() ![]() While Twos can be ambitious, they feel uncomfortable going after their goals directly, feeling that to do so would be too selfish. Twos and Threes are different in several other key areas. And while Threes enjoy the attention, and want relationships, they actually fear intimacy, becoming more uneasy as the relationship becomes closer. Threes get others to like them by developing the excellence of their own "package." Threes seldom lavish attention on the other rather, they are trying to be so outstanding and irresistible that the other will want to focus attention on them. Twos are primarily motivated by the desire to please the other as a way of creating closeness or intimacy–to enhance relationship. ("How are you feeling this afternoon? You look sad.") Twos give the other person lots of appreciative attention in the hopes of being valued as a friend or intimate by the other. Basically, Twos attempt to get others to like them by doing good things for them–by focusing on the other person. Therefore, it is important to distinguish how these two types "seduce" attention from others. But clearly, all types can be seductive in their own way, and Threes can be very seductive indeed. ![]() ![]() Confusion sometimes arises, for instance, because the word "seductive" has often been applied to type Two. With the 2w3 and the 3w2, however, personal charm and the desire to be liked and to please others can make these types more difficult to distinguish. A Two with a One-wing is unlikely to be mistyped as a Three, and a Three with a Four-wing is unlikely to be mistaken for a Two. Here again, confusion about wing versus dominant type is likely to be the problem. ![]()
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